Psychotherapy: What Is It, How Does It Work, and What Is the Goal?

The last few years have been hard on everyone’s mental health. According to a recent report by the Pew Research Center, 41% of U.S. adults have experienced high levels of psychological distress at some point from March 2020 to September 2022. Young adults, ages 18 to 29, were even harder hit, with 58% reporting high psychological distress at least once in that time. The silver lining is that people are becoming more aware of the need to care for their mental health—with an estimated 1 in 5 Americans living with mental illness per the National Institute of Mental Health, it’s a timely reminder for anyone struggling with a challenging situation or negative thoughts that seeking help is a good idea when you’re finding it difficult to cope on your own. Psychotherapy is an effective way to help resolve issues and treat mental health conditions, but people may not have an accurate idea of what it really is and the positive difference it can make.

 

What Is Psychotherapy and How Does It Work?

Psychotherapy, also known as “talk therapy,” is a broad term for treatment to improve mental health by talking to a mental health professional such as a psychologist, counselor, or other licensed practitioner. Therapeutic approaches that fall under this general umbrella term are intended to help people identify unhealthy emotions, thoughts, and behaviors and learn to replace them with healthy coping skills that improve their ability to function and their well-being. While psychotherapy is recommended for depression, anxiety, personality disorders, eating disorders, and a wide range of other mental health conditions, it can also help people adjust to life changes and stresses that they are finding difficult to manage.

There are many different types of psychotherapy, such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), interpersonal therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy and more. Many therapists specialize in one type or blend elements from different approaches to best serve their patients. Psychologists, licensed marriage and family therapists, licensed professional clinical counselors, and licensed clinical social workers are among the mental health professionals qualified to provide psychotherapy.

In addition to individual therapy, psychotherapy can also help when the difficulty lies in a relationship, as in couples therapy or family therapy. In these cases, work is centered around improving communication and patterns of interaction between partners or family members, rather than focusing on one person. Group therapy, in which a therapist leads a group of unrelated people often dealing with similar troubling issues or experiences, is another option. For example, a bereavement group can help participants feel less alone when dealing with the loss of a loved one, while benefiting from the professional guidance of a therapist who can advise them on navigating the grief process. The type of therapy that will be right for you is highly individual—the best measure is what makes you feel comfortable and what works to improve your quality of life.

 

What Is the Goal of Psychotherapy?

While the specific goals of psychotherapy will vary from person to person, depending on what situation brought them to therapy, the purpose overall is to treat mental disorders and emotional challenges through psychological means. Through conversations with a therapist, the patient gains a better understanding of themselves, learns to change behaviors that are preventing them from living the life they want, and develops healthy coping mechanisms to meet life’s challenges.

How long that takes depends on each case: some patients need only a limited number of sessions to deal with a specific issue, while others who are faced with a chronic condition or complex, long-standing situations may benefit from long-term treatment. The goals you and your therapist set will help determine the treatment plan that is best for you.

 

How Effective Is Psychotherapy?

Studies indicate that 75% of people who receive psychotherapy benefit from it. Research also shows that psychotherapy is equally effective whether it is delivered through in-person sessions or remotely, via teletherapy. This means that busy schedules and/or limits to how far you can travel to see the right therapist don’t have to be a barrier to getting the help you need.

Of course, psychotherapy requires active, willing participation to be most effective. During treatment, you’ll be learning new ways of looking at difficult situations and new skills for resolving them—attending appointments regularly, completing homework assignments between sessions, and practicing what you’ve learned will help your therapy have the greatest positive effect.

 

Investing in Your Well-Being

Psychotherapy can help alleviate mental suffering and lay the groundwork for living a healthier, happier life. If you’re ready to make a positive change, the compassionate Care Coordinators at SF Stress can help. With a free complimentary phone consultation, they’ll match you with one of our more than 40 qualified therapists for in-person therapy in one of our California locations or online therapy via a secure, HIPAA-compliant platform. Schedule your free consultation today to get started.

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4 Practical Ways to Regulate Your Nervous System

Approximately 30% of modern adults will experience symptoms of anxiety disorders in their lifetime. Not just anxiety. An anxiety disorder. 

Our society has more access to news and information than any previous civilization in history. It’s often our phone that we see first thing in the morning, full of headlines that pump our adrenaline and send our nervous system into a state of panic.

As a result, the constant influx of adrenaline can exhaust our nervous system, making it harder for our bodies to deal with the stress we experience on a daily basis.

Symptoms of an overactive nervous system include:

  • Anxiety
  • Insomnia
  • Panic attacks
  • Feelings of hopelessness
  • Exhaustion
  • Hypertension (high blood pressure)
  • Poor digestion
  • Insulin resistance

Social media prescribes self-care baths, wine, and Netflix as the primary way to de-stress. While these activities may be enjoyable, they are only band aids for deeper problems. Your nervous system requires more than just sitting back and watching TV, it must be reset through targeted healing practices. 

The good news is that these targeted practices can easily be incorporated into your daily routine. Once you begin implementing them, you’ll feel calmer in the face of daily stressors.

 

Why is Calming the Nervous System Important?

The primary (central) nervous system is located in the brain and spinal cord. This is the command center for sending important messages throughout the body. The primary nervous system allows you to breathe, move, think, and function under pressure.

The peripheral nervous system is connected to the central nervous system by branching out across the body to reach all of our organs and limbs. 

There’s also the famous vagus nerve which runs from the brain down through the neck and abdomen and regulates many parts of the body, including the digestive system.

An overworked nervous system can cause your body to enter a chronic fight-or-flight response. This is when your body thinks it’s in danger — even when it’s not.

For instance, when you see traumatic events on the news, your nervous system thinks that you’re in danger even though you are not. As a result, your adrenals release stress hormones, sending your cells into high alert. Clearly, this is not a recipe for a healthy lifestyle.

Keeping the nervous system calm is crucial for a longer, healthier life. In doing so, you’ll replace your anxiety with feelings of contentment and gratitude. Stress will be less noticeable in your daily life, and you’ll give your body space to focus on healing itself — physically and emotionally.

 

How to Calm the Nervous System

Healing your nervous system doesn’t always require prescription pills or fancy equipment. (However, you should consult a doctor if you are experiencing symptoms)

Here are some simple and accessible practices and tools you can use to reset your nervous system. 

  1. Deep Breathing Practices

Using deep breathing techniques, you can repair your nervous system naturally. If you’re in a state of panic, box breathing, diaphragmatic breathing, and alternate nostril breathing can help you calm down. Meditation or yoga paired with deep breathing is also a great option, even if you only have 5 or 10 minutes to spare. 

  1. EFT Tapping or Acupuncture

You can’t always escape stressful situations. Some days, it may seem that simply existing at your job — or even at home — can cause your blood pressure to rise. If this is the case, Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) tapping or acupuncture can restore your body’s natural balance.

Originally developed in ancient Chinese medicine, these techniques are used to balance your body’s energy. They are based on the idea that unblocking energy channels can help you release painful emotions.

You can learn EFT tapping at home or get acupuncture treatment from a local specialist. Nowadays, there is even needle-free laser acupuncture for those who dislike needles. 

  1. Forest Bathing (Aka, Hiking or Walking Outside)

Grounding, fresh air, and gentle exercise. It is well known that these elements possess incredible healing abilities and are capable of controlling the nervous system. Remember the last time you immersed yourself in nature. After a few minutes with your bare feet on the ground, did you feel your stress start to slowly melt away?

In Japan, forest bathing is used as a treatment for a wide variety of ailments. A simple walk in the trees can do your body and mind wonders. You don’t need to walk for a long time or to go anywhere special – just allow yourself to be fully present and relaxed.

  1. Decrease Your Adrenaline Output

Is it possible that watching intense TV shows or listening to true crime podcasts is giving your body a high level of adrenaline? It’s important to remember that your nervous system cannot distinguish between a stressful event on TV and one in real life.

Whenever the body receives large amounts of adrenaline (through a traumatic event or long-term stress), it may begin to crave more adrenaline to get its “high.” This is similar to the adrenaline junkies who climb rocks or seek dangerous activities in order to feel that rush. 

If you find yourself checking off a mental to-do list in the car or in the shower — only to become anxious the moment you face reality, chances are that your body is looking for adrenaline.

Consider temporarily switching out activities that spike your adrenaline for calmer ones. For example, watch all your favorite rom-coms or pick low-intensity workouts next time you’re at the gym. As a result, you will be able to calm your nervous system and help it heal naturally.

 

Benefits of Maintaining a Calm Nervous System 

These tips and tricks aren’t just for calming panic attacks. A reset of your nervous system opens up all kinds of possibilities, such as: 

  • Improved emotional health
  • Better brain function
  • Longer attention span
  • Better performance at work and at home
  • Decreased risk for disease
  • Improved sleep
  • Normal blood pressure

Check-in with yourself both before and after you try these suggestions. Can you feel your energy softening or calming? Starting small can help you practice regular nervous system regulation, which is helpful in a time that feels particularly overwhelming. In time, your body will begin to relax and regulate naturally, without the need for quick fixes.

If you’re looking for more ways to regulate your nervous system and manage stress in your life, consider seeking professional support from SF Stress & Anxiety Center. Our team of experienced therapists can help you develop personalized strategies to reduce anxiety and improve your overall wellbeing. Don’t let stress control your life any longer, take the first step towards a calmer, more fulfilling future and book an appointment with us today.

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